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How to get help with debt collectors

Updated October 21, 2025 • 12 min read • 2,442 words
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Learn how to stop debt collectors.

Debt collectors are deploying more aggressive tactics than ever before, but you don’t have to roll over. The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA) exists to protect people from abusive or misleading collection tactics. It sets the ground rules for how third-party collectors may contact you, what they must tell you, and what happens when they break the law. Find how to stop debt collectors and learn about consumer rights, with different topics and categories listed below.

Protections from the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act

The government has regulations, rules and laws in place. The goal is to stop harassment as well as aggressive debt collection practices. The FTC ensures consumers have a number of legal rights given to them and also that collectors follow all of the government rules and regulations. The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act will, among other things, to the following. with additional details here https://www.ftc.gov/legal-library/browse/rules/fair-debt-collection-practices-act-text . Stop calls from the companies and it enforces all state as well as federal government laws. It requires that all debt collectors and the companies they work for treat consumers fairly, do not harass them, and follow laws that protector borrowers. It is targeted at leveling the playing field and it prohibits debt collectors from using certain methods to collect on any payments that may be due. The federal government commission is created with borrowers in mind and it gives them the protections they deserve. It is always important to note that the best way to stop a debt collector from calling is to stay out of debt in the first place . The goal is simple: reduce harassment, require accurate information, and give you control over when and how collectors reach you. If you need broader help with balances, look into your options to lower interest, consolidate debts, or access hardship programs from your card issuer .

How may a debt collector contact me?

Collectors can reach you by phone, mail, and even by email, text, and private social media messages. They cannot contact you at inconvenient times or places. As a baseline, contact before 8 a.m. or after 9 p.m. is generally off-limits unless you agree to it. A debt collector also can’t contact you at your workplace if the collector knows that your employer disapproves of such contacts or if you notify them not to do this. The rule also presumes harassment if a collector calls you about a particular debt more than seven times in seven days or within seven days after a phone conversation about that debt. If you say certain times or places are inconvenient, they must respect that. Social media has guardrails . Messages must be private, not public posts, the collector must identify themselves, and they must give you a clear way to opt out of social messages. You can tell them to stop using social channels altogether and choose another method. If you have an attorney, the collector generally must contact your attorney , not you. When reaching out to other people, collectors are limited: they can try once to get your location or employer details and cannot disclose your debt to them.

Prevent a debt collector from contacting you

You can tell a collector to stop contacting you. Put it in writing and send it by certified mail, return receipt requested. After the letter is received, they may contact you only to confirm they will stop or to tell you about a specific legal action they plan to take. The cease-contact right is long-standing under the FDCPA and still applies under today’s rules. The CFPB and FTC both recommend written requests to preserve your record. They may not contact you again other than to say there will be no further contact. Another reason that they may also contact you is to notify you that the creditor or debt collector intends to take specific action on your account.

May a debt collector contact other people about the arrears due or me not paying bills?

Possibility, and only for limited reasons. This would be typically to find your location or workplace and usually not more than once per person. They cannot reveal you owe a debt and cannot discuss details with your friends, family, or coworkers. If you’re represented by an attorney (even a free legal aid lawyer in your state), they must go through your attorney. These restrictions continue to be enforced by federal regulators. The reasons for these calls include the following. They can contact others to find out what your phone number is, if they need help finding out where you live, or where you work. Please note, debt collectors typically are prohibited from contacting such third parties more than one time. In most cases, the collector can’t tell anyone other than your attorney and you that you are not paying bills on time. They can’t go and tell third parties that you owe money on your accounts.

What does the debt collector need to tell me about the bills or unpaid debt?

Within five days of first contact, a collector must send a validation notice with the amount , the creditor’s name, and instructions on how to dispute notifying you that you are behind on your bill(s). Under Regulation F, the notice must include an itemization date (charge-off date, last payment date, last statement date, transaction date, or judgment date) and a simple way to dispute or request more information. The CFPB published a model validation notice that many collectors now use; it provides a safe-harbor format that’s easier to read and respond to. If you dispute within 30 days, the collector must stop collection until they verify the debt with more details here on the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau https://www.consumerfinance.gov/consumer-tools/debt-collection/ . If anything looks off such as wrong amount, not your account, or a collector you don’t recognize - send a written dispute promptly and keep copies. The CFPB provides consumer-facing guidance on what to do after first contact and how to control the method and timing of communications. If you’re comparing options, find out how to consolidate debt interest-rate reduction for next steps once a debt is verified.

Laws to stop contact if you do not owe money

If you don’t owe the debt , dispute it in writing within 30 days and request validation . Until the collector provides verification, they must pause or stop collection efforts unless they send proof of the debt owed. Also know your statute of limitations . When a debt is time barred (the legal window to sue has expired), federal rules prohibit collectors from suing or threatening to sue on that debt. In most states, they may still ask you to pay, but you don’t have to and in some states, any payment or written promise can restart the clock. Proceed carefully and get the status in writing before you consider any payment. Your state’s deadline varies by debt type and jurisdiction. If you need a quick reference while preparing state content, state attorney general and court sites publish local limits and disclosures (for example, Texas lists a four-year limit for most suits on unpaid debt). There are also statutes of limitations to prevent collection of credit card debts , and these laws are state specific.

Stop debt collectors from medical and hospital bills

Medical debts are now treated differently in credit reporting and debt collection. The three major credit bureaus previously removed paid medical collections and most under-$500 medical collections from reports and required a one-year wait before reporting. In January 2025, the CFPB finalized a rule to ban medical bills from credit reports used by lenders and to prohibit lenders from using medical information in credit decisions; however, a federal court recently overturned that rule. Even so, many smaller medical collections are still off most reports under the bureaus’ earlier changes, and millions saw score improvements. If you owe money on a medical or hospital bill, then there are some different tactics you can take. There are additional tips that may help in solving these health care related obligations. Debt collectors also have more rules they need to follow for these types of medical costs. Find how to stop hospital debt collectors .

Do state programs and laws exist?

Yes. Many states add protections that go beyond federal law such as licensing collectors, capping fees, or requiring special disclosures on time-barred debts. So in addition to the assistance from the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), which has the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, consumers will get additional rights at the state level. California, for example, enforces the Rosenthal Act and publishes clear consumer guidance on debt collection conduct, including restrictions on social media and harassment.

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Types of practices that are prohibited

They have many restrictions . The main ones, by category, including the following. The FDCPA bans harassment, unfair practices, and false statements. More detailed prohibitions are listed here. https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/what-laws-limit-what-debt-collectors-can-say-or-do-en-329/ . In plain terms, collectors cannot threaten violence, use obscene language, lie about the amount due, pretend to be government or attorneys, or claim you’ll be arrested. They cannot say they’ll garnish wages or seize property unless that action is lawful and truly intended They also can’t publish your name as someone who refuses to pay, send postcards, or disguise mail to look like court papers. These core prohibitions haven’t changed and they apply whether contact is by phone, mail, email, text, or social media. Regulation F also clarifies limited-content voicemail messages. A collector may leave a narrowly tailored voicemail that includes a non-revealing business name, a call-back number, and a contact person, without disclosing debt details. If they include extra information, the message becomes a “communication” subject to stricter rules and third-party disclosure risks. If a collector does not abide by them then you can take actions on them, including possibly suing. Lawsuits can be filed in local as well as some state courts against the company that is harassing the borrower or breaking the law. Read more on how to sue a debt collector .

What control do I have over paying bills?

If you owe several accounts to the same creditor, you can direct how a payment is applied and to what unpaid debt So the funds you send in need to be posted to the account that you need help with. A bill collector can’t apply a payment to bills you believe you do not owe any money for. Put your instructions in writing . As an example, “Apply this to account ending 1234 only.” This reduces errors and prevents money from being steered to a disputed account. For larger plans, a reputable non-profit debt counseling agency can help you set a budget, prioritize debts, and negotiate interest-rate reductions without exposing you to abusive tactics. If you’re dealing with older debt, get the statute-of-limitations status and any settlement in writing before you pay to avoid reviving a time-barred debt. Find ways to get help with medical debt ,

What can I do if I think a debt collector violated the law in dealing with me?

You can sue in state or federal court within one year of the violation. If you win, you may recover actual damages, plus up to $1,000 in statutory damages and your attorney’s fees. Class actions may provide broader relief when a collector’s conduct affects many people. The CFPB and FTC also accept complaints and can act against abusive practices. To build your case: save every letter, voicemail , text, email, envelope, and call log. If calls continue after a cease-contact request or if the collector ignores your dispute, note dates and keep receipts. The CFPB explains what to do after first contact and how to manage communications during a dispute. Your court costs as well as attorney fees can also be recovered. as part of the lawsuit Class action lawsuits can also be an option, including against credit card companies. You can also form a group of people to sue an agency, company or debt collector and recover money for the damages up to $500,000. Or there are other ways to make claim and to recover up to one percent of the collector or agencies net worth, whichever is less. A class action lawsuit is a little more complicated, and consumers will need to work with an attorney on this. Payday lenders have additional rules when it comes to unfair practices. Almost every state has created unique regulations and consumer protections for dealing with the repayment or collection practices of these lenders. Learn the specifics of what payday lenders can do to collect their debts and outstanding loans. Find the details on state payday loan laws .

Report a debt collector for alleged violations

File complaints with both federal and state authorities - even your your states Attorney General's office . The CFPB complaint portal routes your case to the company for a response, often within 15 days, and keeps a record for regulators While most states have their own need for debt collection laws, your Attorney General office can help you determine your rights for your specific state and provide assistance when it comes to contesting and/or paying bills. You can also report fraud to the FTC here https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/ . You can also call CFPB at (855) 411-(2372) for help submitting a complaint . The FTC provides consumer guidance and accepts reports about abusive practices. Your state attorney general may take action under state law and often operates a hotline for consumer fraud. And also know you are not alone ! Millions of people from across the country are in debt and/or go into debt from time to time. It can be with credit cards, medical or something else. If you want tips from other people, have questions or to discuss , or read about other people’s challenges, use our community forum about debt collectors and what people across the US are doing.